IRVING SOLNIK, ARGUABLY THE BEST TORONTO LAWYER IS ADAMANT WHEN HE SAYS- “GET A DIVORCE-LIFE's SHORT, DONT TO LIVE IN MISERY OR IN JAIL!"
IRVING SOLNIK, SAYS "LIFE IS SHORT AND IF PROBLEMS EXIST NOW OR IF IT APPEARS THEY COULD LATER-DIVORCE AND/OR INCOME TAX, FOR ANY REASON, BITE THE BULLET AND GET A DIVORCE NOW! DON’T WAIT UNTIL ITS TOO LATE!!”
HE SAYS “LIFE IS SHORT AND WHEN THE MARRIAGE IS LOVELESS AND/OR IT HAS INSURMOUNTABLE PROBLEMS OR DIFFERENCES, GET A DIVORCE, DON’T WAIT!
LIFE IS FAR TOO SHORT!” AND PAY UNPAID INCOME TAX OR SPEND YEARS IN JAIL. IRVING SOLNIK CAN HELP YOU IN BOTH MATTERS-HE IS A TRUE EXPERT.
A CAVEAT HOWEVER EXISTS IF THERE ARE CHILDREN. IF SO THEY WILL SUFFER EMOTIONAL HARM THAT COULD AFFECT THEM ALL THEIR LIVES-ESPECIALLY IF THEY ARE USED AS PAWNS BY ONE OR BOTH PARENTS, SEE OR HEAR ARGUMENTS OR WORSE BETWEEN THEIR PARENTS.
THE DIVORCE SHOULD TAKE PLACE QUICKLY AND IF POSSIBLE, AMICABLY, LEST THE CHILDREN SUFFER GREATLY. I WILL SHOW YOU HOW IF YOU LET ME!
LET ME EXPLAIN WHY I WRITE WHAT YOU ARE READING.
“THERE'S A JOY IN HAVING THE FIRST MOLECULE OF AN IDEA OR THOUGHT, THEN TESTING IT FOR A PERIOD OF TIME LONG ENOUGH IN FRONT OF AUDIENCES OF MILLIONS OF MEN AND WOMEN WHO SURF THE INTERNET, TO DETERMINE WHETHER THE IDEA IS VIABLE.”
“CATCH ME IF YOU CAN AND CHASE ME IF YOU MUST.” THERE ARE FEW IF ANY LAWYERS WHO DO ALL THAT I PERSONALLY DO FOR CLIENTS ESPECIALLY IN DIVORCES!”
THE QUALITIES OF A GREAT LAWYER ARE:
GREAT EXPERIENCE+GREAT SKILLS+GREAT KNOWLEDGE+GREAT ABILITY+GREAT STRENGTH+GREAT PERSEVERENCE=GREAT TENACIOUSNESS+GREAT GUTS =A GREAT LAWYER!
IRVING SOLNIK NOW REVEALS HOW HE BECAME THE BEST TORONTO LAWYER AND HOW HE SUCCESSFULLY BUILT A FANTASTIC LAW PRACTICE, PRACTICES ALL AREAS OF LAW, DOES SO 24/7 TOO AND MAKES HOUSE CALLS. DO YOU ANY LAWYER WHO DOES ALL I DO?
“MY STELLAR SUCCESS AS A LAWYER IN VIRTUALLY ALL LEGAL MATTERS IS DUE TO MANY FACTORS THAT YOU CAN READ BY SCROLLING DOWN!
Call him at (416) 222-8509 evenings and weekends until 10pm and talk to him personally at no cost or obligation about legal matters or problems, personal or business, which nag at or trouble you personally or in business!
“CATCH ME IF YOU CAN” IS STATED BY IRVING SOLNIK BUT FEW TRY AND NONE HAVE SUCCEEDED IN DOING ALL THAT HE DOES FOR HIS CLIENTS!
NOW FOR THE FIRST TIME, HE REVEALS WHY HE EXCELS AND SUCCEEDS GREATLY IN THE PRACTICE OF ALL AREAS OF LAW AND HE HAS NEVER LOST A CRIMINAL CASE!
HE TELLS OF OTHER LEGAL MATTERS IN WHICH, UNEXPECTEDLY, HE DID NOT SUCCEED- BECAUSE HIS CLIENTS DID NOT TELL HIM THE TRUTH!
“CATCH ME, IF YOU CAN” IRVING SOLNIK SAYS “DO AS I DO AND PERHAPS YOU MIGHT SUCCEED AS I HAVE”……MY CLIENTS, EXISTING AND NEW, OFTEN CALL ME AT (416) 932-8509 UNTIL 11PM-DO YOU DO LIKEWISE? CALL ME-YOU MIGHT CATCH ME AND IF YOU CAN I WILL ACT FOR YOU AND REVEAL MY SPECTACULAR LEGAL STRATEGIES TOO!
THE LEADING LAWYER, IRVING SOLNIK, REVEALS HOW HE BECAME THE BEST LAWYER AND THE ONLY LAWYER WHO IS REFERRED TO THOUSANDS OF TIMES DAILY ON THE INTERNET BY THE SEARCH ENGINES-EXPONENTIALLY MORE OFTEN THAN ALL OTHER LAWYERS AND INDIVIDUALS COMBINED.
THE AREAS OF LAW ICOMMONLY PRACTICE ARE:
- Family Law (Divorce, Custody, Child abduction etc)
- Prenuptial and Cohabitation Agreement
- Personal Injuries, Accidents and Automobile Accidents
- Wills and Estates
- Immigration and Citizenship
- Corporations and Business Law
- Taxation (income tax, gst, late or no filing, evading taxes, amnesty)
- Civil and Criminal Litigation
- Serious Criminal Offenses (Defense)
- Insurance Claims or Actions
- Real Estate (All Aspects)
- Entertainment Law
- Contracts and Agreements
- Municipal Law and Bylaws
- Expropriation and Eminent Domain
- Employment Law
- Wrongful Dismissal (I will institute legal actions for causes giving rise to wrongful dismissal including sexual and other harassment)
- Medical and Dental Malpractice
- Libel, Slander and Defamation
- DUI and Traffic Act Offenses
- Intellectual Property Law (patents and copyrights)
- Business, Commercial , Partnership and Corporate Law
The areas of law above are examples only of the areas of law Irving Solnik commonly practices and are not meant to be all inclusive.
NO ONE CAN CATCH SOLNIK NO MATTER HOW HARD THEY TRY! THE BEST TORONTO LAWYER STATES, “CATCH ME IF YOU CAN” IS THE CHALLENGE, YET NO ONE HAS WANTED TO BE THE CHALLENGER-WHY?
IRVING SOLNIK IS BEST TORONTO LAWYER FOR DIVORCE, CUSTODY, EQUALIZATION (and all related issues), TAXATION, MEDICAL AND DENTAL MALPRACTICE, BUSINESS, CIVIL/CRIMINAL LAW AND ALL AREAS OF LAW YOU MAY NOT HAVE HEARD OR KNOW OF!
YOU CAN ASK WHY AND HOW IRVING SOLNIK ACCOMPLISHED ALL HE AS AND IN A VERY SHORT TIME. THE ANSWERS AND REASONS ARE REASONS ARE DESCRIBED BELOW:
"I left my position in industry as house counsel, advertising, marketing, sales manager and then CEO because I finally realized how much I missed the practice of law and began to practice law again on a full time basis.
In less than eighteen months from when I started again, my law practice grew prodigiously, at a rate that even surprised me and the degree to which it grew could well have taken others up to ten years or more accomplish.
According to other lawyers all that I accomplished in such a short time was spectacular and nothing short of impossible. I believe in and proved that the dictum “nothing was impossible was indeed possible.
I practiced and continue to practice all areas of law the way law should be practiced and I invariably succeed on the battlegrounds of the courts and those at the negotiating tables.
"I attribute my success to many factors including my extensive knowledge, expertise (all self taught) and spectacular results that I obtained and continue to obtain for my clients using exceptionally effective strategies I created. Likewise I did so for the internet utilizing proprietary and secret methods I also created."
"The results that I obtain from the internet speak for themselves and I obtained them through the use of methods, techniques, strategies and tactics that I developed over a period of years and I constantly utilize them with spectacular results. No one knows what and how I consistently achieve such spectacular results that defy all efforts and even efforts at duplication."
The various factors include: my tenacious persistence, my marketing and advertising experience, skills and ability, my knowledge, my success in other fields of endeavor and a host of other factors that I will reveal to you on request.
My fearlessness, my constant striving for perfection, my refusal to ever give up, my willingness to do whatever it takes with no holds barred and the outstanding results I obtained and continue to obtain for my clients in numerous areas of law, be they in the courts or the negotiating tables no matter what the matters are.
Add constant study and learning, a highly retentive memory, a most prodigious work ethic-24/7 at times, prompt personal service for my clients and a host of numerous other factors.
They include genetics, years of warfare on the battlegrounds at the negotiating tables and those of the courts during which I was pitted against some of the most experienced, most knowledgeable, successful and highest priced lawyers. I vanquished all of them as you will read.
I am also always on call 24/7, makes house calls and provide my clients with prompt personal service. Does any other lawyer do all that I have done and continued to do?
The Best Toronto Lawyer, Irving Solnik, Is Best At Doing What He Does-He Practices All Areas Of Law and Is On Call Until 10pm Days, Evenings and Weekends at (416) 222-8509! For Emergencies Call (416) 854-7059 24/7
For a number of years I was in house counsel for various companies as well as a senior executive including being advertising, sales and marketing manager and CEO until I realized how much I missed practicing law.
Then I divested myself of my other interests and devoted myself to practicing law full time again and I realized that I missed the challenges of business. I then added business and commercial law to the other areas of law I practice and have the best of both worlds.
My law practice grew substantially and quite quickly because of the results I obtained for my clients and I obtained many clients using techniques I developed for the internet as well as other highly effective means.
There are many other reasons for my success, the spectacular success of my law practice and some of them are set out below.
“I practice all areas of law and practice law the way law should be practiced and do so 24/7 when required! I am also on call evenings, weekends and holidays until 11pm and if emergencies exist I am on call 24/7.”
“The other reasons include: my extraordinary work ethic, my almost photographic memory, my experience, my multitasking ability, my insatiable ambition and tenacity, my relentless drive to learn and explore the new, my desire to always succeed and not to fail and my compassion for others.
IRVING SOLNIK IS ON CALL AND CAN BE REACHED AT (416) 932-8509 UNTIL 10PM EVENINGS, WEEKENDS AND HOLLIDAYS. EMERGENCIES, CALL (416) 854-7059 24/7. THERE ARE FEW IF ANY OTHER LAWYERS WHO DO ALL WHAT IRVING SOLNIK DOES FOR CLIENTS!
BACKGROUND
The law offices of Irving Solnik has five decades of experience in practicing law including Family Law (divorce, custody and all related matters), Taxation Law (amnesty, late filing or returns not filed), Immigration, Intellectual Property (patents and copyrights), Real Estate, Business Law, Employment Law, Wrongful Dismissal, Personal Injury, Civil Law And Criminal Law (defense) and virtually all categories and subcategories in the entire spectrum of law.
By reading this post you will learn all about the Toronto Law Offices Of Irving Solnik and all that the Law Offices Of Irving Solnik and Irving Solnik personally, can do for you business wise and/or for your personal legal needs.
The Law Offices of Irving Solnik were established in 1957 and have earned a solid reputation for providing the highest quality legal services in a broad range of substantive areas covering the entire legal spectrum. Our pragmatism, our aggressive use of technology and our dedication to client satisfaction distinguishes us from our peers in the legal community.
Moreover we take an innovative approach to meeting our clients' needs, including devising highly effective strategies and tactics for legal matters, developing special relationships with clients and designing special or alternative fee arrangements to meet clients' needs. We invite you to explore our web log to learn more about the Law Offices of Irving Solnik and what we and Irving Solnik personally have to offer.
Irving Solnik is Best At What He Does- He Practices All Areas of Law Including Divorce, Taxation, Libel/Slander, Wrongful Dismissal, Civil and Criminal Law Including Litigation and Negotiations!
“I have been a lawyer for many years and my practice includes medical malpractice, taxation, litigation and negotiations. I am an excellent litigator and negotiator, fearless, tough and always do whatever it takes.”
SHAMUS O'DRUNKAHAN WROTE "IRVING SOLNIK, MY NEW LAWYER, IS AWESOME. WITH HIM AT MY SIDE HOW CAN I LOSE?"
READ ABOUT IRVING SOLNIK-SEARCH ANY SEARCH ENGINE AND YOU WILL FIND OUT WHY HE IS THE LEADING, TOP GUN LAWYER.
When You Need A Tough, Fearless Lawyer Who Aggressively Practices Law and Always Does Whatever It Takes. Irving Solnik Is Awesome.
GONE HOLLWOOD!
My attorney, Irving Solnik, has had a makeover! I knew he'd go all after handling the Pitt/Anniston divorce.
It looks good, but he lost some of the rough edge, and he's going to wish he had that next time he's scrapping it out in court. But he'll still win and case, you can bet the house on that.
He quotes me on his website. I hope that means I get a break on my next case with him. I don't just endorse anyone, you know. Posted by Shamus O'Drunkahan.
"ITS NOT TOO OFTEN THAT SHAMUS O’DRUNKAHAN WRITES ABOUT ME AND I AM FLATTERED WHEN HE DOES SO. I WILL GIVE HIM A BREAK ON HIS NEXT CASE!"
ARGUABLY ONE OF THE BEST TORONTO LAWYERS, IRVING SOLNIK, AGGRESSIVELY PRACTISES FAMILY LAW (divorce, custody & related issues), CRIMINAL LAW (defense-serious crimes), BUSINESS LAW, REAL ESTATE, INTELLECTUAL LAW (patents, trademarks) AND CIVIL LAW INCLUDING CIVIL/CRIMINAL LITIGATION!
CALL AND SPEAK TO HIM PERSONALLY- (416) 932-8509-AT NO COST OR OBLIGATION AFTER YOU HAVE READ THIS, HIS W-BLAWG!
"I Aggressively Practice Virtually All Areas Of Law And Excel At The Most Difficult Legal Matters No Matter What They Are-Commonplace To Complex Matters In The Broad Spectrum Of Law! What’s More I Act For Clients From All Occupations and Professions, No Matter Their Sex, And Business And Personal Matters.
Call (416) 932-8509 days, including evenings and weekends and talk to Irving Solnik personally at no cost or obligation!
Irving Solnik, arguably the best Toronto lawyer, is tough and fearless-a no nonsense lawyer who always does whatever it takes and "lose" is not in his vocabulary.
You are reading this because you need a lawyer or you may be in pain-the pain associated with existing or threatening legal problems such as unpaid income tax, divorce is threatening- or one of many other legal problems or matters and the need for the right lawyer. Or you would not be reading this article.
Your daily routine may have changed-you are irritable, nervous and aggravated. You have difficulty sleeping and lack of sleep adds to everything else that is associated with the pain you feel. It does not matter whether your sex is male or female, the same problems exist. Your symptoms are common with a multitude of others who likewise face legal problems and usually there is no need for concern. The remedy is often quite readily available.
First examine the reason for your need of a lawyer. Is it a commonplace matter such as buying or selling a home? Or is it a serious matter that justifies the deep concern you feel-such as the threat of a possible divorce, perhaps you have not filed an income tax return and/or you have not paid taxes on the income you made or you face a criminal charge of any kind! Or is it some other legal matter that troubles and concerns you?
Whatever it is you must not allow it to continue causing the pain and concern you now are enduring. The consequence of not being cured of the pain can be quite serious and at times, fatal.
The first thing you should do is find and retain a lawyer who can work with you and alleviate all the pain you feel-very much like a fine physician would do. You need the right lawyer. However finding the right lawyer is often virtually a trial itself and can be fraught with pitfalls. You obviously need a tough, fearless and experienced lawyer who always does whatever it takes-a premier leading lawyer-a lawyer who is best for your legal problems.
I am that lawyer, the lawyer you need and you can avoid the trial of finding the right lawyer by retaining me. I am tough, fearless, indefatigable and one of the best in my profession.
Over the years there is little law that I have not practiced-from commonplace matters such as buying or selling a house to highly complex and serious matters such as evading income taxes or other complex matters that entail civil and/or criminal litigation.
What’s more "lose" is not in my vocabulary and I practice law the way law should be practiced. What should you do? Let me explain!
I have been a lawyer for many years during which I became familiar with most matters that seriously trouble clients and in all likelihood that which troubles you. And you are not alone. Whatever is of deep concern to you is, as I have stated, is in all likelihood a legal problems or matter that I have previously encountered with other clients and I am familiar with it or quite similar problems in my law practice.
All you need do is contact me at no cost or obligation. Call me at (416) 222-8509-days, evenings and weekends to or if you prefer send an email to me at: solniklaw@lawyer.com.
I also make house calls as doctors of yester year did and I am on call 24/7 for emergencies-regardless of what you do or your sex.
I Aggressively Practice Law-Taxation Law (income tax, amnesty), Family Law (divorce, custody, separation and related issues), Immigration Law, Civil (corporations, business, commercial ventures), Criminal Law (defense), Civil/Criminal Litigation And Medical Malpractice As Well As Litigation (I am a top litigator and charismatic public speaker).
I have been a lawyer for many years and am one of the premier Toronto lawyers-I practice law the way law should be practiced. I am tough, fierce and a compassionate lawyer, who always does whatever it takes, provides personal service, is on call days, evenings and weekends and makes house calls too.
Because I personally devote my time and effort to all clients, the number of new clients I can accept and act for at for a limited number of new clients at any given time is quite limited.
Call and speak to me personally about your legal matters or problems, at no cost or obligation. Or send me an email at: solniklaw@lawyer.com
When you need a tough, fearless, experienced, aggressive, fierce yet compassionate and eminent Toronto lawyer, one of the very best, call me-I never give up and always does whatever it takes with no holds barred.
Call and talk to me personally at no cost or obligation @ (416) 932-8509 days, evenings and weekends too.
THE ANATOMY OF A PARENT CHILD ABDUCTION!
Irving Solnik's two sons, 3 & 5, were illegally abducted-kidnapped by his ex-wife, actively assisted by a major international law firm-one of the most powerful law firms in the world. She was also assisted by other well known highly respected lawyers, her multimillionaire parents and a host of other conspirators!
A front page story was then published in the Globe & Mail with headlines that blared: "Millions Spent On Custody Row."
"MY TWO YOUNG SONS, AGES THREE AND FIVE, WERE KIDNAPPED BY MY EX WIFE!"
She abducted-kinapped the boys after I was awarded custody of them by the courts. She did so with the active help and participation of a highly "respected" and one of the most powerful law firms in the world.
All of the conspirators were paid by her multi-millionaire parents and they included a phalanx of other lawyers, public officials, doctors, a prominent professor of law and others. My ex wife, after kidnapping the boys went into hiding for more than one year before they were flushed out from where they were hiding using a strategy I created.
Notwithstanding the army of experienced high priced lawyers she had I won every court battle. But ultimately I lost the war because after the final battle she kidnapped them again and disappeared with them permanently.
Despite my unending efforts to find them at great emotional and financial cost it has been over 20 years since I last saw or heard of them.
To read more about the kidnapping and all that ensued before and thereafter please click on the following link or cut and paste it into the address bar of your browser.
http://www.abductedchildren.blogspot.com.
It is only recently that I could talk about what happened let alone the pain when writing that is still immense and will be so for many years to come.
During well over six years of non stop litigation for custody of my sons I learned more about law, evidence, court protocol, body language, cross examination, strategies and tactics more than I learned in law school and more than twenty years of practicing law.
Indeed I learned more than in twenty years of practice and more than most lawyers learn in a lifetime simply because their children were never kidnapped. I became an infinitely better lawyer because of all that transpired but wish that I could have done so in a less painful way.
All I learned now inures to the benefit of my clients, existing and new, in any and all legal needs they may have.
WHY RETAIN IRVING SOLNIK AS YOUR LAWYER?
Because HE is a tough, fearless and indefatigable lawyer with extensive experience in law, business and real estate (he was a successful business executive as well as a successful builder and developer.
He also has an encyclopedic knowledge of many fields of business as an entrepreneur and law and a master legal strategist. The strategies he utilizes in law and the business world invariably produce spectacular results.
HE IS ALSO A FORMIDABLE, OFTEN A FIERCE OPPONENT AND THE WORD "LOSE" IS NOT IN HIS VOCABULARY.
Irving Solnik's knowledge of law is awesome and he practices divorce and related issues, personal injuries, immigration, real estate, libel and slander, taxation, construction law, corporate and business law, serious and complex civil and serious criminal matters including litigation as well as other categories of law.
When you need a lawyer no matter the reason call Irving Solnik and you will find that he always does whatever it takes. He provides prompt personal service and makes house call. He is available for all your legal needs. With all his experience there is very relatively little in law Irving Solnik has not successfully practiced.
Likewise he possesses extensive experience in business, having been involved in many companies as in house counsel, CEO, sales, marketing, advertising manager and other senior executive positions. He has also been a builder and developer and built apartment and office buildings, shopping centers, condominiums, subdivided and improved land.
Mr. Solnik's greatest loves are law including business and real estate law-the practice of law, the diversity of his practice and the challenges of business make it so. He is a formidable adversary, fearless and often fierce.
The joy he obtains from practicing law and business is exponentially greater than being only in business or in law alone. The two together he found to be highly compatible and of significantly greater challenge.
What's more Irving Solnik is available evenings and weekends too and gives free legal advice. Your complete satisfaction is vital to him.
When you need a lawyer for any matter, call Irving Solnik. Don’t delay because in most legal matters time is very much of the essence.
Furthermore since Irving Solnik personally devotes his time and efforts to all his clients he can accept a limited number of new clients at any given time.
Call him at (416) 932-8509 at no cost or obligation or send email to: solniklaw@lawyer.com
REMEMBER I NEVER GIVE UP NO MATTER WHAT!
To a very great extent I am most difficult to beat in many areas because of my encyclopedic knowledge, tenacious persistence and the experience I culled from disasters that I personally faced and overcame.
I am learned in law and in courtroom protocol, body language, evidence, strategies, tactics and much more for virtually any legal issue including complex civil and criminal litigation. Such include taxation, wills and estates, business, corporate as examples and serious criminal matters of all kinds ranging from rape, sexual abuse of children and other extreme crimes.
There are few, if any lawyers like me and who do all that I do for my clients. Not only am I a superb litigator, but an accomplished arbitrator, mediator and facilitator. I also make house calls, provide prompt personal service and am available 24/7 for emergencies.
Shamus O'Drunkahan wrote -"My new lawyer, Irving Solnik, is awesome. With him at my side, how can I lose?" Need more be said?
Call (416) 932-8509 no matter what your legal matter is, be it commonplace or highly complex in almost any area of law. You will receive my prompt personal and efficient service and you will find that I practice law the way law should be practiced.
A CAVEAT TO BE AWARE OF WHEN DIVORCE EXISTS OR THREATENS
Why You Need And Why You Should Get A Lawyer If The Possibility Of A Divorce Exists! Know Your Rights and Obligations Before It’s Too Late Especially When There are Children!
MOST IMPORTANT OF ALL WHEN MARITAL PROBLEMS OF ANY KIND EXIST AND PERHAPS DIVORCE THREATENS, GO AHEAD QUICKLY AND GET A DIVORCE BECAUSE LIFE IS SHORT-AND I WILL HELP YOU!
The children invariably suffer greatly when parents are divorced because in all too many cases one or both parents use the children as pawns to vent their emotions.
"Get a tough, fearless experienced lawyer" is often the first thing that someone facing divorce should be advised by family and friends.
For the person whose life has just gone off track, who wants more than anything to get back to "life as usual," that advice can seem cold. The reality is that legal advice and help is critical even if all it involves is a preliminary consultation.
Contacting a lawyer should not signal a bloody war between spouses but rather to protect each person's interests at a very stressful and emotional time. Yet a bloody signal is almost invariably made and all too often when there are children.
Here's what ONE CLIENT wrote regarding the advice to newcomers to retain a lawyer: "I am reconciled with my husband." That said, my first advice is still usually "get a lawyer-know your rights and responsibilities."
The reason for this is that many people who wind up with lawyer are not necessarily getting divorced -- they are being divorced.
"Can you forgive him or her" is irrelevant when the other spouse doesn't give a damn if you forgive them, beg, plead, crawl or just go away and die.
The following was stated by a client: "When we were first starting our divorce, I was unemployed, but we had savings, I had the house, and I knew I would get a job. I wasn't worried about being homeless or starving, or any of the things that seem to traumatize people at the beginning of this process."
Divorce is an emotional, thought-provoking time in people's lives, and unfortunately, that is usually NOT the best time to be making decisions that could have life-long consequences.
Unfortunately, that is how this process works. Since it is a legal process that can occur totally without someone's consent, having a third party who is emotionally neutral but legally advocating for you can make worlds of difference.
It takes two people to make or save a marriage -- it only takes one to get a divorce. Many times, the spouse who has asked for the divorce has already done their emotional separating, their "grieving" for the end of the marriage, and their research on just how to get out. The spouse that gets the surprise "I want a divorce" starts out already behind the 8-ball.
When people come here asking, "What will happen to me?", "Can he throw me out of my house?"
"Can he or she take my kids away from me? Can he keep everything because I haven't worked outside the home in 15 years?" And many other related questions. Then my first advice will still be "Get a Lawyer."
Reconciliation, counseling, etc. can happen at any point in the process, but the time to cover your a$$ is before you get frostbite. And the best way is to take the bull by the horns-don’t wait! Get a divorce now. Call me!
When you get a lawyer, retain a tough experienced one who always does whatever it takes, is fearless, indefatigable and a formidable opponent. Need I say more? Simply contact me at (416) 943-8509 anytime including evenings and weekends. How many other lawyers would do likewise?
Now is the time to get rid of the pain and concern you have because of legal problems. Do so by contacting me. You can also read more about me and articles I have written at: http://irvingsolnik.blogster.com
WHAT TO DO WHEN A PARENT IS DENIED ACCESS TO CHILDREN BY THE OTHER PARENT?
When separation or divorce has taken place it is apparent in many cases that when one parent has interim, joint or sole custody, the parent frequently denies access to the other. This normally occurs when the parent does not drop off the children for access or is not at home when the other parent arrives to pick up the children for access. Another form of denial is termed “over holding the children,” for example, returning the children late, at times by hours and at times for an entire night.
Obviously the custodial parent becomes worried and concerned unless advised of the late return of the children. Denial of access or over holding is almost invariably more frequent at or during holidays and also when the parents live in different cities.
From a legal point of view, the options for dealing with this tactic are rather limited as follows:
1. Lawyers usually can’t do anything immediately because access changeovers often occur on or near weekends.
Even if one lawyer manages to reach the other parent’s lawyer, chances are the other parent is not just denying access, but also avoiding their lawyer’s telephone calls.
2. The police generally won’t help you. Normally the reason is that your agreement or court order isn’t specific enough. For example, if you have access every second weekend, it usually is unclear whether this is your access weekend or not.
But even if your agreement or court order is specific, it is rare that the police will want to get involved unless there is a specific order in the court order that states the police are to intervene in such cases. Thus the police will usually advise you to speak with your lawyer.
It’s extremely frustrating and aggravating for the parent who is to have the children as well as it is for the children. The time with and plans you made with your children are ruined without any notice. What to do?
The following are suggestions:
a. Don’t lose your temper and try to remain calm. If this is the first time it has happened, there may well be legitimate reasons why the other parent is delayed.
b. If you have the opportunity, go to court on an urgent basis to get an order directing the police to enforce the visitation order. This is a good option for longer access periods, eg. if the children were to spend their spring break with you.
c. Keep trying to pick up your children. If you’re supposed to be spending a specific time period with your children, there’s nothing wrong with going to the other parent’s home many times to try to pick up your children. Even if the other parent is the one who is supposed to drop the children off at your home, it may make sense for you to try to pick up your children.
d. Document everything. A stern letter should immediately be sent to the other parent or their lawyer. Such letters are normally not answered but they should be sent. A paper trail is created so that in the future you can show the other parent’s pattern of access denial.
e. Demand make up time but this is usually feasible. Make up time is probably what’s best for the children but obviously the other parent does not think so.
f. If a parent is persistently late returning the children, go to court to get the changeover time modified to an earlier time. Also, consider picking up the children yourself rather than relying on the other parent.
g. If your case hasn’t been resolved yet (i.e. you only have a temporary or interim order for access), use the denials of access to build a case as to why you should get sole custody. One factor courts consider in awarding custody is the willingness of each parent to facilitate access to the child by the other parent.
h. The last resort for dealing with persistent denial of access is to bring a contempt motion before the courts. There are difficulties in proceeding this way, but if the other parent is persistent in denying access you have no choice. The keyword is persistent-it generally is not worth going to court about an occasional missed access period.
Access denial is more common than a lot of people would care to admit. It’s causes range from everything from that legal grey area immediately upon separation where there is no agreement or court order in place to cases where the court order in and of itself is vague and open to interpretation.
A good strategy would be to focus on building a trail of evidence to show the steps a parent takes to respond to access denial in a peaceful and non-adversarial manner.
It’s also good to be proactive. If a person has experienced access denial in the past or if access denial is a legitimate prospect, try sending your spouse advanced notice of your intention to access the children, usually via registered mail in high conflict cases, via email in moderate to low conflict cases.
If the access denial still occurs, send your spouse a registered letter asking to resolve the issue via family mediation and list the names of some mediators. Encourage him/her to select one of the mediators, arrange for the appointment and offer to make yourself available. Give it a week for a response.
If there is no response, or your spouse tells you to “pound salt”, now you have a small trail of evidence to show a judge the steps you took in resolving the conflict. It also shows the contrast between the parents who are mired in divorce conflict versus the parent who is looking for ways to resolve conflict.
Rushing off to court, or even just sending nasty letters between lawyers, which is the instinct of most divorce lawyers and litigants, will generally just serve to heighten tension which may well result in future denials of access.
There are a number of strategies and tactics that can be used to prevent denial of access or at least minimize it. Over the years I have developed such strategies that often have had spectacular success.
They are based to a great extent on the strategies of Sun Tsu, the renowned Chinese war strategist who espoused them in his book, “The Art Of War,” written some 3000 years ago.
When legal problems of any kind occur, or legal matters arise and you need a lawyer with the unique and extensive qualifications that I possess, especially in law, don’t wait because time is usually of the essence in most legal matters
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requesting that she ask the court for sole custody, that her husband be restrained from seeing or having anything whatsoever to do with her three year old or her and that the police intervene if necessary.
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